Mother of Alexander Abdulov: biography, family and interesting facts. Irina Alferova’s mother said that Alexander Abdulov lived in the dressing room for a year after breaking up with her daughter. Ksenia Alferova buried her mother.

On May 29, Alexander Abdulov’s mother celebrated his birthday for the fifth time without him. Having buried her son at the Vagankovskoye cemetery in Moscow, Lyudmila Aleksandrovna left a comfortable cottage near Moscow and went to a remote village in the Ivanovo region.

Communicates with granddaughter only by phone

To a modest house, on the porch of which simple belongings - linen and an old mattress - are drying, there are no roads, but directions. Pothole on pothole. There is not a hint of civilization in the surrounding area. Some are abandoned, as if from a movie about the end of the world, factories, forests and fields. The final stop of the minibus running from the city is about five kilometers from the village. Konokhovo doesn’t even have signs.

The story of the appearance of the famous actor’s mother here 4 years ago is a big mystery. Why, after Abdulov’s death, was it she, and not the widow, who was forced to leave the house with which so many memories of her son are associated? Why couldn’t the artist’s relatives get along under one roof and rejoice together, seeing his long-awaited daughter Zhenya grow up? And what, in the end, made the elderly woman climb so far, 300 miles from Moscow?

“It happens…” – Abdulov’s friend and colleague Leonid Yarmolnik makes a philosophical remark.

Abdulov’s relatives are well aware of the strained relations that, even during the actor’s lifetime, had established between his relatives, especially in the person of his half-brother Robert (son from his mother’s first marriage), and his young wife Yulia. They were also a bit of actors and acted out warm feelings for each other while it was profitable.

“Sasha treated all his relatives with reverence,” says Yarmolnik. “He took care of everyone, fed everyone, supported everyone. And arranged, settled, and repaired. Almost everyone lived with him and at his expense - Robert and his family, mother, especially for which Sasha built a separate house next to his own..."

When the question of inheritance arose, the conflict escalated. Having lost their only breadwinner, Abdulov’s numerous relatives longed for their share. Meanwhile, it was impossible to single her out: the documents for the country house are still being drawn up, and the actor has not acquired accounts in Swiss banks. According to the law, two-thirds of the existing inheritance was assigned to the widow and daughter of the deceased and one-third to his mother.

“If we had to protect only Yulia, Zhenechka and Lyudmila Alexandrovna, we would have easily decided everything,” says Yarmolnik. “Sasha’s mother is sacred to all his close friends.” But Robert intervened, having received a power of attorney from Lyudmila Alexandrovna to represent her interests, and the history of the division took on ugly features. The relationship between Sasha and Robik was not easy. Robik was a quitter, he believed that Sasha could support them even better. At the same time, he himself did not earn anything. That is why, after Sasha died, unpleasant problems arose for everyone "We have a showdown over the inheritance. Robert incited his mother against Yulia, for some reason he always saw everyone as deceivers and criminals. It is clear that Lyudmila Alexandrovna initially believed her son, and it is already difficult to convince a person at that age."

Uninformed people accuse Yulia Abdulova of being hard-hearted. Like, the poor old woman survived and was sent to hell without a penny. Is it possible to do this to my husband’s mother, whom he idolized all his life?

“Lyudmila Alexandrovna was the beloved person in Sasha’s life,” Leonid Yarmolnik testifies. “Mom was a participant in all our parties. All his friends adored her, and she loved them. Sasha was attentive to her, but, naturally, like any child, no matter how much no matter how old he was, he didn’t listen to his parents. Therefore, Lyudmila Alexandrovna, worried about him, asked us, close friends, to influence him: “Well, tell Sasha to eat more, sleep more, work less...”

However, we cannot agree with the fact that Yulia offended her mother-in-law. After assessing the inheritance, a conclusion was made: in monetary terms, Lyudmila Alexandrovna’s share is $800 thousand. This amount was paid to her (that is, Robert) in installments in 2009, for which there are receipts. At the same time, several apartments were purchased for Robert’s family in Ivanovo. They didn’t forget about my grandmother - in the village house where she was assigned to live out her life, they installed plastic windows and a satellite dish, and installed gas heating. The house itself was given free of charge; Lyudmila Alexandrovna’s parents once lived here. Abdulov visited these places on vacation while studying at the institute.

“I came to Konokhovo about 30 years ago, then Sasha’s father was still alive,” recalls Yarmolnik. Their lifelong friendship began in their student years. “Only I had a car - a Zhiguli.” We drove off-road to "Ivanovo region and were transporting a trunk full of potatoes - the car was warped. It was very funny. Then we went fishing. And, tired, we fell asleep right on the shore."

Nothing has changed since then: there are still no roads to Konokhovo, but the Uvod River is still there. The Abdulovs' plot (12 acres, no less) goes directly onto the pond. The closest neighbors built a completely acceptable pebble beach on their own. For the actor’s 5-year-old daughter, if Zhenya came here for the summer, it would be a real treat. However, the grandmother communicates with her granddaughter only by phone. You can love relatives from a distance, but you cannot forgive mutual offenses.

Marriage with Alferova was ruined by money

Money was also the reason for Abdulov’s breakup with his first wife, the beautiful Irina Alferova.

In the late 80s and early 90s, practically no films were made in the country, theatrical performances were performed in empty halls - the impoverished people in a matter of days had no time for art. The artists were without work, without money, without prospects. Meanwhile, a new class of rich people was emerging - large business oligarchs who managed to grab a tasty morsel from the once great power. A certain chic, fashion trend for such people was to make friends with artists whom they had previously seen on TV. Many of the newly-made rich were, to be honest, connected with crime and gangster groups. But they had money and power. Some artists bought it. And a “beneficial” friendship arose.

So bosom friends Alexander Abdulov and Leonid Yarmolnik began to communicate with the class of new Russians on a short leg. The latter began to allocate money for filming, theatrical productions, as well as numerous festivals, where the impoverished creative fraternity suddenly had the opportunity not only to drink for free, but also to snack on black caviar.

They say that it was thanks to “great friends” that Alexander Gavrilovich managed to purchase a mansion in the elite village of Vnukovo near Moscow, and a huge country house in the city of Valdai.

Alferova adhered to other principles all her life. “I never thought it was right to be friends with the “right” people!” she says in a firm tone even now. One can only imagine how Irina reacted to her husband’s demands to accept another brother in the house! And soon the family broke up - Irina could not bear such " .

He hardly talks about his sons

Now Abdulov’s mother lives with her daughter-in-law Albina, Robert’s widow. The mother lost her last, third son (the middle Volodya was killed when the Abdulov family still lived in Fergana. He was buried there) six months ago. On December 4, the day of the State Duma elections, he went to Moscow to vote at his place of registration. On the subway, Robert became ill and died.

“It’s a strange death,” marvels Robert’s neighbor in Konokhovo, Viktor Petrovich. “He was a strong man, he didn’t complain about his health. The doctors said it was a heart attack. Robert and I often fished, but now there’s no one with us... And Lyudmila Alexandrovna and Albina are alone remained. Of the men, they only have Albina's grandson. He lives in Ivanovo and helps if you need to mow the grass or dig up the beds. I also help when asked. Only the journalists overpowered them. In general, they are calm women. I see Albina more and more in the garden. Sometimes and Lyudmila Aleksandrovna will come down from the porch, bend over to the cucumbers a couple of times. She is sick (when Abdulov was alive, he sent his mother to a large cardio center for treatment twice a year. - Author). And I don’t even know how she suffers more - mentally or physically . She is of sound mind, she has an excellent memory, she thinks soberly. But I noticed that she hardly talks about her sons. She probably worries, only inside. Only once did she say: “I was killed four times. She buried her husband, and then all three children. It’s high time for me to go to the next world, but I still live.”

...Konokhovo is located in a water protection zone. On the other side of the dam, in the village of Yegoriy, there is an old cemetery. Abdulov’s mother’s parents, son Robert and his half-sister Olga are buried inside one fence. The freshest grave is buried in wreaths of flowers. The small bouquet was only slightly wilted - apparently it had been replaced recently. The wooden bench and table have not yet turned black with age. Women probably come here often. This is all that remains for them - to mourn the departed, wherever they rest.

At the end of 2017, the first rumors about the death of Alexander Abdulov’s mother appeared and many reporters immediately rushed to the Moscow region to check whether she was alive or not. The elderly woman turned 96 years old and her life cannot be called easy. Lyudmila Aleksandrovna Abdulova was able to outlive her husband and all her children, which was a heavy blow for her.

But the will of the man who went through the Second World War remained strong. And the wives and daughter of the late artist did not allow the woman to feel lonely until the end. Lyudmila Abdulova was buried on October 24 next to her son Robert and her parents.

Alexander Abdulov's mother was left alone

Life story

Lyudmila Abdulova - mother of Alexander Abdulov, born in 1921. Not lagging behind her peers, she got married at the age of 18. In her first marriage, the woman had a son, Robert. After some time, the Krainov couple separated, and Lyudmila married a second time. After 7 years of marriage to Abdulov Gabriel Danilovich, she gave birth to a son, Vladimir. The adults worked at the theater, my father as a director in Fergana, and my mother as a make-up artist.

Lyudmila Abdulova in her youth

When Lyudmila Abdulova became pregnant for the third time, she faced a difficult choice - to have an abortion or keep the child. The woman believed that if she decided to carry a baby, it would only be a girl. She didn’t want any more boys, just as she didn’t want to give birth to a child for the fourth and subsequent times until a girl was born. Thanks to a doctor’s mistake, Lyudmila was confident throughout her pregnancy that she was carrying a daughter, but a boy was born, who was named Alexander, in honor of her maternal grandfather.

Alexander grew up in the male company of three brothers. His father had a son from his first marriage, Yuri, who was raised in the Abdulov family. Among all his brothers, he was the most active and cheerful, looked at the world from a positive point of view and found more advantages than disadvantages in everything. When Alexander Abdulov matured and managed to get on his feet, it was he who became his mother’s main assistant and support. He took Lyudmila to him, surrounding her with the same warmth and care that she gave him in childhood.

Father of Alexander Abdulov

Gabriel Danilovich was not only a good father, but also a celebrity who received the status of “Honored Artist of the RSFSR” and “Honored Artist of the Uzbek SSR.” The man also became an Honored Artist of the Karakalpak Autonomous Soviet Socialist Republic. He worked not only in theaters in the countries of the former Soviet Union, but also at the Mosfilm film factory. And a few years later he was no longer playing on stage, but he also held an honorable position - artistic director of the theaters of Alma-Ata, the cities of Uralsk and Sukhumi.

Lyudmila Abdulova with her sons
Ksenia Alferova.

But not everything was smooth in the family. The eldest son Robert envied his famous brother all his life and in every possible way incited his mother against his wife. He wanted to divide the inheritance of the famous actor, but Julia intervened.

Ksenia Alferova with her grandmother
The woman borrowed $800,000 from Abdulov’s friends and bought out relatives’ shares in the house in Vnukovo near Moscow, so that the property would remain for the daughter of the late artist.

Lyudmila Alexandrovna moved to live in the Ivanovo region, believing that Yulia had deceived her and kicked her out without paying. Soon her eldest son died. Robert Krainov died in 2011, and for some reason all the money sent to his mother was found in his bank account. So Lyudmila Aleksandrovna Abdulova was able to outlive all her children.

last years of life

Lyudmila Alexandrovna was a real rural woman. She was in excellent health, and no one could remember if she had ever been sick with anything serious. Ksenia Alferova published her childhood memories of her grandmother on Instagram. The artist says that Lyudmila has always been a strong and strong-willed woman who surrounded everyone around her with her love.

Alexandra Abdulova with her grandchildren

Alexander Abdulov's mother spent her last years in the Ivanovo region. She remained in the care of Albina, the wife of her eldest son Robert, and Yulia and her granddaughter Evgenia often visited the elderly woman. She also received constant calls from her other sons' children. Although the woman never fulfilled her dream of having a daughter, it was her granddaughters who surrounded her in her old age.

Zhenya took after her father in character and his mother in appearance, which endlessly pleased Lyudmila Alexandrovna. But after her death, Yulia decided that her daughter should not attend the funeral in order to remember her grandmother as the healthy and strong-willed woman she had been all her life.
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A series of tragedies ultimately undermined the health of Lyudmila Abdulova. Literally 1.5 months before her death, the woman suffered from a stroke. But by that time, the body, worn out over 96 years, could no longer cope with the stress. Lyudmila was completely immersed in memories. She could sit for hours looking at the photos of her sons and husband on the wall. A few months before her death, Abdulova began to experience memory loss. She periodically asked those around her when the boys would return, as if she could not believe that she had outlived them all. And at the end of October 2017 she died and was buried in the family cemetery.

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Alexander Abdulov passed away four years ago, but his mother, Lyudmila Aleksandrovna, still cannot come to terms with it

Now she is also mourning her eldest son Robert, who died last winter from a heart attack in the Moscow metro. Left alone, the grief-stricken woman holds on with all her strength and tries to return the money she inherited from her beloved Sasha: today the actor’s nephews are laying claim to it.

After the death of Alexander Abdulov, his relatives were unable to get along under one roof. His wife Yulia and their little daughter Zhenechka remained in a luxurious house in Vnukovo near Moscow, and the actor’s mother and daughter-in-law Albina, the wife of the actor’s late brother Robert, went to the family estate in a small village in the Ivanovo region. The nearest store is ten kilometers away, and for medical help you need to go to the regional center.

The Abdulov family estate is already 100 years old, but it does not look like a personal estate: a modest log house, a small bathhouse and several hundred square meters of land. The actor’s mother has her own room in a cozy house. Above her bed is a painting of her late husband, above the wardrobe - a photo of the sons who left her, writes Express Newspaper.

Alexander Abdulov in the film “Sorcerers”

“I’ve become completely bad,” sighs Lyudmila Aleksandrovna. - The pressure rises often, and my back hurts a lot - it’s difficult to walk. But I’m already 90 years old - it’s time... But no - the children leave, but I stay! It's good that Alya is nearby. When Robert died, I said that I would live only with her.”

“I won’t give you up to anyone myself! - Albina calmed the worried mother-in-law. “No one could have imagined that everything would turn out this way.” After Sasha’s death, we decided to move from his dacha to Vnukovo. We had a separate house there: Robert and I lived on the second floor, Lyudmila Alexandrovna chose the first. But after the misfortune the situation changed: problems with the inheritance began, so we moved to the village. Little by little they made repairs in this house, my husband installed a new greenhouse, and in the spring he wanted to install a shower cabin, but did not have time. He went to Moscow on business, visited Sasha’s grave, looked at the polling station and even voted, but in the subway he had a heart attack. He was very worried about the death of his brother - what kind of heart could bear such a misfortune?

Lyudmila Alexandrovna’s eyes filled with tears: “What have I done so wrong before God? She lost her middle son Volodya early - he was only 33. A smart guy grew up and taught Russian language and literature at the institute. After my husband’s death, I was afraid to be alone at home, so I asked Volodya to come. It was quite late, he was attacked on the street, his camera was taken away and he was killed. After that, I moved to Moscow to live with Sasha. He then lived with Ira Alferova. While they were filming and touring, I sat with Ksyusha, Ira’s daughter: to school, to all sorts of clubs. It’s such a pity that Sasha and Ira divorced, because they lived so well! No matter how much I tried to reconcile them and find out the reason for the discord, it didn’t work out... But Irochka didn’t forget me even after the divorce, and even now she calls me constantly, and Ksyusha came here a couple of times.”

“Yulia came when she learned about Robert’s death,” Albina explained. - I brought food and money. But we didn’t take anything - we have everything! She invited Lyudmila Aleksandrovna to return to Vnukovo, but what should she do there? In addition, she needs constant care, but will Yulia do this? And they sometimes talk on the phone with Zhenechka. You should see how she blossoms when she hears her granddaughter's voice! Julia promised to bring Zhenya in the summer. I am now a villager again. I had to leave Moscow because, as if there was some problem, I needed to go to my place of registration. And I like it here better - fresh air, and what a view!”

Lyudmila Alexandrovna got out of bed heavily and went to the window. “Do you see the river? In my youth I swam all over it, but now I can admire it for hours. When Sasha entered the theater, he often came here with friends. They had fun here: fishing, swimming, mushrooms and berries. My father inherited this house from his parents - it’s already more than a century old! I grew up here and went to school five kilometers away. This is where Robert was born - my dad delivered the baby while my mom ran for help.”

“When Yulia entered into inheritance rights, she invited me to give up my share,” recalls Lyudmila Alexandrovna. - In return, she promised that she would not drive her out onto the street and would help in every possible way. But how could I refuse the inheritance when Robert was left without a home? During his lifetime, Sasha bought apartments for his daughters, and his brother always lived with him.

And I didn’t want to stay at the dacha: sooner or later Yulia would begin to establish her personal life, but what would it be like for me to look at all this? After this conversation, we distanced ourselves: she did not want to resolve the inheritance issue until Sasha’s friends intervened. Lenya Yarmolnik brought a decent amount of money, which he and his comrades collected for me. I used this money to immediately buy my granddaughter Ira (from my middle son Volodya) an apartment in the Moscow region, Robert and Alechka - in Ivanovo, they made repairs in this house - gas, water. What was left - Roberta put it on the book. Now after his death I have to prove that my money is in the account. The account was frozen."

“It’s the same with us: when a person is alive, few people need him, but when he dies, heirs immediately appear,” explains Albina. - Robert has children from his first marriage, now we are afraid that they will start dividing. If they get to the account where Lyudmila Alexandrovna’s money is, we’ll have a hard time.”

Photo: skandaly.ru, nv-online.info, eg.ru, kp.ru

The mother of the famous artist Alexander Abdulov, Lyudmila Alexandrovna, has passed away. She lived in the Ivanovo region, in the village of Konokhovo, Ivanovo district (Uvodstroy district).

“This woman had incredible fortitude! – actress Ksenia Alferova, daughter of actress Irina Alferova, adopted daughter of Alexander Abdulov, wrote on Instagram. “I remember when I first came to the woman’s village in the summer and saw a huge Russian stove in the house, I began to pester her with a request to make me a kolobok!” At first the woman tried to explain that it was impossible, that it wouldn’t be possible to make it round, and she didn’t know how! I forgot about the request after a while, but she kept going around and making up the dough! Then I scraped the bottom of the barrel and did it! And not just one, but many! I still remember the taste of these koloboks and have never eaten anything more delicious! And how in the evenings, sitting comfortably on the sofa, we ate sushi with tea! Grandma drank sweet tea, broke the dryer (grandmother’s palm was so big, strong, hard-working) and put it into the tea, and then you fish it out with a spoon and eat it! Yummy!"

“And how we went skiing in Sokolniki!” recalls Ksenia Alferova. “Or rather, it was me on skis (they were so small, plastic, they were worn on boots), and my grandmother was running next to me! Or standing at the bottom of the slide, I definitely wanted to climb higher, she was afraid for me, but didn’t say anything, after all, she raised three sons! And then we went into the dumpling shop, from the cold they took a plate of strangely colored and shaped dumplings with sour cream. We stood at the round table, chatted and ate the dumplings! Happiness! Went to "To my beloved husband and sons! Happiness too! Bitter, sad, painful and joyful at the same time! The kingdom of heaven to you, grandma, and thank you for everything!"

Alexander Abdulov, who passed away in 2008, had two older brothers. Robert and Vladimir. Vladimir passed away in 1980. He was killed by street thugs. Robert Abdulov, who, like Lyudmila Alexandrovna, lived in the Ivanovo region,

The widow of the famous actor finally sued his house in the Moscow region!

On October 24, Alexander ABDULOV’s mother, Lyudmila Alexandrovna, was buried at the Ivanovo cemetery. The second wife of the People's Artist, Yulia, spoke about her last days.

Sasha’s mother died at the age of 96, says Yulia Abdulova. - Zhenya and I (the only natural daughter of Alexander Abdulov. - N.M.) a week and a half before her death visited Lyudmila Alexandrovna in Ivanovo. Zhenya loved her and always missed her. I decided that I would go to the funeral without my daughter. There is no need to traumatize a child for him to see the coffin. It’s good that Zhenya doesn’t remember how for some reason her nanny brought her to church for her father’s funeral service... Sasha’s mother lived a happy life: she was never sick, only a month and a half before her death Lyudmila Alexandrovna had a stroke. However, recently she began to experience memory loss. Looking at us sitting by her bed, she suddenly asked: “Where are the boys?” She kept looking at the portraits of her three sons hanging in the room - Robert, Vladimir and Alexander, whom she buried, and stretched out her hands to them... Lyudmila Alexandrovna rested in the family grave - next to her parents, sisters, and eldest son Robert. Before we had time to bury Sasha’s mother, they started calling me from all the talk shows. I refused because I don’t trade my face for money. There is no topic for scandal: my mother died not in a hospice, but at home, surrounded by the love of her family. She was buried with dignity. The money she had would be enough for two lives.

After Abdulov’s death, his older paternal brother, Robert Krainov, brought turmoil into the relationship between Yulia and the artist’s mother.

Robert was always jealous of Sasha, they even fought,” explains Yulia’s friend Irina. - In the past, he was a physicist, retired, lived in Sasha’s house with the money he gave to Lyudmila Alexandrovna. When Abdulov died, Robert laid claim to all the property, and began pitting Yulia against Sasha’s mother. Allegedly, she does not allow her granddaughter to see her grandmother... Yulia behaved with dignity: she borrowed money from Abdulov’s friends and gave it to Robert and Lyudmila Alexandrovna in exchange for their shares in the house. After Robert’s sudden death, for some reason all the money ended up in his account. His wife Alya could not use them, because Robert’s children from previous marriages began to claim the inheritance.

Abdulov had two houses, one of which is located in Valdai, says Yulia. - It was he who was put up for sale in order to pay off debts.

She does not want to sell the house in Vnukovo near Moscow, which Abdulov built. Yulia managed to win all the cases, and now there are no legal encumbrances on the house. However, Yulia prefers to live with her daughter in a Moscow apartment, and her father lives in Vnukovo.

The house is poorly insulated, so it needs to be heated in winter,” says Yulia’s friend. - Zhenya rarely goes there, because she needs the Internet, and the connection there doesn’t work well. The girl is in fourth grade, she grows up fighting, and is friends only with boys. In general, I took after my father.

Goodbye grandma...

Ksenia Alferova wrote on Instagram about the departure of a loved one.