What does the wife of Alexander Abdulov do? Alexandra Abdulov's widow Yulia: If Sasha's illegitimate son turns up, I won't mind! “Painkillers ruined my health”
Every year, numerous fans and friends of Alexander Abdulov gather at his grave to remember the actor. There will always be a girl among this crowd with an armful of yellow roses. She has been consistently bringing them for 10 years now - a symbol of real feelings. This is Yulia Abdulova - the last love of the great artist.
Yulia Meshina was born in 1975 in the Ukrainian city of Nikolaev. Since childhood, she grew up in a wealthy family - her father ran a business in France, and her uncle had a factory in her hometown. During the collapse of the Union, my father left for France because prosecutions. After school, Yulia goes to Odessa and enters college at the Faculty of Law. She first married at the age of 18 to someone the same age from a wealthy family. The guy often cheated on the girl and the marriage broke up. After this, Meshina moves to Moscow. There the girl meets the son of the director of ITAR-TASS, Alexey Ignatenko. Julia always stood out for her bright appearance. The businessman began to court the girl and six months later they got married.
Meeting of Yulia and Alexander Abdulov
At the time of their acquaintance, both Alexander and Yulia were in a relationship.
The couple met at the airport when they were going to Kamchatka to fish in a company of friends. Friends immediately noticed that the actor fell in love. An adult, but he behaves like a boy. After Kamchatka, everyone left and everyone continued their own lives.
On the old New Year, Alexander received a call - he invited Yulia to celebrate the holiday together. He just finished filming in St. Petersburg, returned to Moscow and rushed to Odessa for one day.
The girl and her husband had a good relationship, but boring. According to her, she lacked sparkle, emotions, feelings. But Abdulov had a similar temperament to her, he also could not sit still, his energy was in full swing. After the meeting in Odessa, Yulia returned to Moscow, took her things and left her husband.
Julia's family reacted negatively to the new relationship. A big difference Alexander's age, violent character - everything set them against. It got to the point that the girl did not communicate with her family for some time.
Despite everything, in 2006 the couple played a modest wedding, at which only the closest people were present, the couple glowed with happiness.
Birth of Abdulov's daughter
Alexander has another daughter - he adopted the child of Irina Alferova.
Abdulov tried to spend as much time as possible with his daughter. For some time he postponed all filming.
Daughter's baptism
Abdulov's disease
At the end of August 2007, the actor was urgently taken to surgery due to a perforated stomach ulcer. A few hours after it, Alexander’s heart begins to hurt. The actor spent about a week in intensive care, then he was sent to the Bakulev Cardiocenter. Upon careful examination, a neoplasm was discovered in the right lung, which put pressure on the spine and caused pain in the heart.
In September, Alexander and Yulia fly to the Israeli clinic “Ichilov”, whose specialization is cancerous tumors. The diagnosis was disappointing - stage 4 lung cancer. Metastases went to the organs, the case is inoperable.
After the prescribed course of chemotherapy, improvement is observed, then the actor is sent to Moscow, where he continues treatment. Doctors prescribe expensive drugs, the price of which reaches up to 10 thousand dollars. His friends come to the rescue and collect all the necessary amount. However, the treatment has no effect.
Alexander did not believe until the very end that he was doomed.
In December, the president awarded him the Order of Merit for the Fatherland, IV degree.
Abdulov willingly shares his plans for the future and looks lively. This is the actor's last appearance on screen.
On New Year's Eve, the artist is taken by ambulance due to a hypertensive crisis. My heart couldn’t stand it anymore, it was getting worse every day. Expensive treatment did not produce any results.
The death of her husband was a real blow for Julia. Friends started arranging the funeral.
On the third day after the actor’s death, his brother came to his house and asked:
“Well, how are we going to divide the money?”
Julia went through this period with great difficulty. Everything reminded her of her late husband, the pain did not leave her even for a second. He admits that there were even thoughts of suicide.
Yulia Abdulova talks about her relationship with her husband:
Abdulov's daughter - Evgenia
Now Julia has completely devoted herself to raising her daughter.
She moved with her from a country house to Moscow, where the girl goes to a regular school. Julia notes that Evgenia is very similar to her father:
“She, like Sasha, is full of energy, it is very difficult for her to sit still. This is probably why my daughter has many different hobbies. In addition, she has a keen sense of justice: she always protects everyone, rushes to the rescue of those who need it.”
To direct her energy in the right direction, her mother enrolls Zhenya in choreography, theater studio, and vocals. The girl also has her own channel on YouTube, which already has more than 1000 subscribers.
Despite all the variety of hobbies, after school the little girl plans to enter VGIK and follow in her father’s footsteps. Numerous offers for filming are already being received. But so far Zhenya has starred in only one film - “Love and Sax” directed by Alla Surikova.
The film, in which Abdulov’s daughter played the role of a schoolgirl, was based on Adil Alekperov’s story “What the Blind Puppies Sing About.” On the set, the girl was lucky enough to work with famous Russian actors- Maxim Averin and Ekaterina Klimova, who played Evgenia’s parents. According to Alla Surikova, Zhenya inherited her father’s talent and character.
On Alexander Abdulov's birthday, his widow and friends will meet to remember the actor. And we remember history last love Alexander Gavriilovich. My wife Yulia is raising only daughter actor Zhenya – the girl is already 10 years old. Her dad National artist passed away nine years ago. And now Yulia Abdulova constantly remembers her husband: “The best and strongest! Darling! Thank God that they remember and love! I haven’t seen such strength as Sasha had among those around him”...
About the first meeting
“Everywhere they say that Sasha first saw me at a film festival, but this is not so,” Yulia Abdulova said in an interview with Andrei Malakhov. — We met when we were flying in a common company to Kamchatka to fish, I was then with ex-husband... For the first date, Sasha invited me to Odessa - after filming in St. Petersburg, he flew to Moscow, changed clothes and rushed to Odessa for one day, where we celebrated the old New Year. Its director Lena was very angry then and said: “Why on earth are we flying to Odessa, who is there to break away for a day for her sake?”...
Julia's ex-husband was smart, successful, handsome man. “But not mine—too cold, or something, but I’ve always lived by feelings...” Abdulova confessed. Even then, during the first meeting in a common company, the woman felt that the actor was a man of the same hot temperament as she was. After that very first meeting, Abdulov began calling, offering to meet, and escaped for one day to Odessa, where Yulia was vacationing. After that meeting, the woman flew to Moscow, packed her things and left her husband...
Yulia's parents were worried about their daughter and did not immediately accept her relationship with famous artist: Dad didn’t even talk to her for several years. The accusations that the woman coveted a successful actor and his wealth surprised Yulia because she was from a wealthy family. The actor’s chosen one said that Abdulov, when they met, had a more modest standard of living than hers, and she more expensive than gifts there were mutual feelings, passion and intelligence of the future husband.
About relationships
The couple spent four happy years together. Since Abdulov was a holiday man, he arranged surprises for his beloved woman. One day, on Yulia’s birthday, while on tour in Sochi (the woman accompanied him on his work trips), Alexander made an agreement with the owner of the water park and it was closed to visitors - the table was set and the actor arranged a candlelit celebration for his wife and their guests.
He gave gifts, looked after him beautifully, and the couple practically never separated. Yulia Abdulova admitted: “I was never alone in my life - I easily got carried away, easily got married, without thinking, then left. Everything that happened before Sasha was easy and simple for me. But with him it’s different, for real.”
...In one of the clinics in Tel Aviv, where Alexander Abdulov was examined, in the ward he celebrated his daughter’s birthday with friends and his wife - his wife was then six months old. Abdulov asked Alexander Oleinikov to bring stewed pork and black bread from Russia - so he feasted and decided to turn on the TV. There, at that moment, they were showing a football match between Lokomotiv and Spartak - the players took to the field wearing T-shirts with portraits of their favorite actor. Alexander Gavrilovich could not hold back his tears...
Almost 10 years have passed since that moment, this spring Spartak became the champion of Russia in football and at the grave of a devoted fan football club a flowerbed appeared with the inscription in red and white flowers “Sasha, we are champions!”
Alexander and Yulia Abdulov. Photo: Larisa Kudryavtseva (“Express newspaper”). ... Six months before the actor’s death in July, his daughter Zhenya was baptized - many guests gathered. “Sashka looked at me intently and said: “You are a little mistress big house“Yulia Abdulova later recalled in an interview. And so it happened. The actor's widow is busy raising her daughter. Zhenya goes to school and attends many clubs. Yulia does not accept numerous filming offers - she agrees only to those projects in which Zhenya herself wants to participate. The girl starred in a music video and in the feature film “Love and Sax.”
“She is 100% dad. Zhenya looks so much like Sasha! If you look at the photographs of Sasha and Zhenya, you can immediately see whose daughter it is. Zhenya has good Abdul potential. She can't sit still, just like Sasha. Zhenya is always on the move: she makes short films for her video channel, comes up with some stories, tells them, communicates and easily finds mutual language with people,” Irina Dmitrakova, a friend of the Abdulov family, told the site. — Zhenya is a good, kind girl. She doesn't have any star fever. This is happiness. Yulia doesn’t attend social events, doesn’t promote herself on her husband’s name, that’s the beauty of Yulia.”
The whole life of Yulia Abudlova is subordinated to Zhenya, the widow’s personal life is not arranged. New meeting it didn’t happen, and besides, finding a second “one hundred percent man” like that—that’s what Julia says about her husband—is quite difficult.
About mom
Photo: “Tonight” frame, Channel One. Lyudmila Aleksandrovna Abdulova lives in Ivanovo region, always looks forward to visiting his daughter-in-law and granddaughter Zhenya.
– I have always been proud of Sasha. Because, really, he is very good, kind, and will give his last,” she said in an interview with the “Tonight” program. - I never said that it was with my health... At the hospital I asked to come home on New Year’s Eve, I apparently felt that I was going to say goodbye. Standing by the window, I approached: “Sasha, what are you looking at there?” “Mom, the car should come. I feel so bad, my heart is beating, but the medications are left in the hospital, I need to go take them.” The nanny comes down from the second floor with Zhenya, Sasha took her in his arms, kisses her, and I think to myself: “Lord! This is the last kiss”... And he loved Yulia very much. We accepted her into our family, she is good. My granddaughter is now in first place, she came with Yulia, ran around, and said that she liked it here. Zhenya, dear, dear girl, I love you madly, please come.
Yulia Abdulova says that she has established a wonderful relationship with Sasha’s mother. After the death of Alexander Abdulov's brother Robert, Lyudmila Alexandrovna lives with his wife Alya. Yulia visits her mother-in-law together with Zhenya, sometimes accompanied by the daughter of the actor’s middle brother. Everyone notes how little Zhenya looks like her grandmother - not only in appearance, but also the girl’s character is the same - imperious, firm.
About life
After the death of her husband, Yulia Abdulova was forced to sell all the jewelry that her husband gave her. But after she entered into inheritance rights - financial difficulties were resolved. This is what she said in one interview. And in another she also said that Alexander Abudlov’s friends at that time allocated a certain amount for him and Zhenya to live on.
The widow admitted that the actor did not save money “for a rainy day” - he lived for his own pleasure, and after touring with an enterprise in the regions, he could rent a yacht with his own money and arrange a holiday for his colleagues. When gathering guests, he never offered to chip in, he paid for everything himself.
“Sasha’s salary was increased 2 years before his death, he received four and a half thousand dollars at the theater...” the actor’s widow, Yulia Abdulova, said in an interview. — Sasha wasn’t much of a businessman. Even on the films that he himself made, he did not earn a penny; as I understand it, he made films for his own pleasure. It was difficult to call them business projects. Sasha, of course, thought to make money from this, but something didn’t work out. He worked a lot: in the theater from morning to evening, at night he wrote scripts, thought about how to make a film... He rarely refused to film. For example, once it was inconvenient for him to refuse a director he knew when he invited him to shoot some picture; Abdulov was promised only one and a half thousand dollars for the work.”
Abdulov helped both friends and strangers- He did a lot of charity work.
After the death of her husband, Yulia took up astrology and graduated from the Pavel Globa Institute - this hobby helped her distract herself.
The Abdulov family was looking forward to the birth of a child with great impatience and at the same time anxiety.
Alexander himself hid his young wife’s pregnancy until the very end, so as not to jinx it and so that everything would go smoothly.
Fortunately, everything ended well - just two days ago Yulia was discharged from the maternity hospital.
– There is so much worry in our house right now! – says Alexander Abdulov’s mother Lyudmila Aleksandrovna. “We all prayed that the birth would go well. But thank God, everything is fine with my granddaughter Evgenia now. They returned home.
The phone of Alexander Abdulov, who has already recovered from the first joyful shock and returned to work in the theater, is bursting with calls from friends. Surprisingly, none of them really knows where Yulia Miloslavskaya came into life. famous actor.
“Already when Sasha got married, we met together a couple of times,” says one of Abdulov’s close friends. “But he never gave us any information about his new wife; he laughed it off when asked. And Julia herself is a very silent person in the company.
When being discharged from the maternity hospital, the guard covered Abdulov’s family with his body
Even he knows little about Alexander’s new wife. dear mother.
“I just know that she seems to have come to the capital from Siberia,” Lyudmila Alexandrovna told us embarrassedly. – And that she once worked as a model. And Sasha didn’t tell me anything else... I’m happy for their happiness, but I know for sure: Sasha will never marry his new wife. After all, he already did this once with Ira Alferova. And to be debunked is a great sin.
The birth of little Eugenia is not the only one happy event in the Abdulovs' house. Now the adopted daughter of Alexander Abdulov, Ksenia Alferova, is expecting a child. She and her husband Yegor Beroev are expecting their first child. An ultrasound has already shown that, most likely, it will be a boy. Now Ksenia is in Italy and does not intend to leave there until the birth.
“We have already decided that Ksyusha will give birth in Italy,” her grandmother told us. – There are better specialists and better climate. So far there are no complications. She tolerates pregnancy well.
It's funny that Alexander Abdulov's future grandson will be younger than him my own daughter for several months.
AbduLOVE: Favorite women of your favorite artist
The bachelor days of the main playboy of Russian cinema, 53-year-old Alexander Abdulov, are over - now he is both a husband and a dad. The aspiring model and actress Yulia Miloslavskaya, who has not yet had time to show off her talent on stage, managed to play main role in the life of the legendary actor. The girl married him and gave birth to his beautiful daughter Zhenechka.
Yulia managed to do the impossible - after her first marriage to Irina Alferova, Alexander Gavrilovich categorically swore off going down the aisle with anyone.
Irina Alferova
For 15 years they were called one of the most spectacular couples in our cinema. “I fell in love with Sasha at first sight,” recalls Alferova. - We went on tour with Lenkom to Yerevan, and he proposed to me. To which I replied: “If you carry it in your arms through the entire city park, I agree!” And he carried it through!”
Abdulov dotes on adopted daughter Ksenia
Alexander Gavrilovich adopted and raised Irina’s daughter Ksenia as his own. The lovers parted as passionately as they had come together. Irina starred in the video “Do you love me” with Alexander Serov, which caused an outburst of anger in the jealous Abdulov... Soon Alferova married actor Sergei Martynov. And Abdulov claimed that in his life he had and still has only wife- Irina.
"Mean Girls
After the divorce, Alexander Gavrilovich hit all the hardest. A ballerina named Galina and a sexually promiscuous journalist Daria Aslamova flashed through his life. One novel almost ended in tears for Abdulov. The actor managed to contact an American spy! “First of all, I didn’t know that she was a spy,” the actor later said. - We had love, and then suddenly it turned out that she was a secret agent. And my passion worked as vice president of one of the bank’s branches.” Soon the spy was expelled from Moscow, and Alexander Gavrilovich was banned from traveling abroad for six years.
Larisa Steinman
However, the actor soon became quite fed up with the wild life, and he found himself new woman. She became a journalist from one of the glossy publications, Larisa Steinman. She came for an interview, and the “industrial acquaintance” grew into a romance. Abdulov lived with her for several years, but was in no hurry to marry her. Steinman, who dreamed of family comfort, was terribly angry about this. And Larisa and Alexander fell out, according to the journalist, the actor’s friends. They, you see, were terribly jealous of Steinman, so they said all sorts of things about her. Some time after their breakup, Larisa brutally repaid her ex-lover and wrote a book about Abdulov, exposing him as a narcissistic egoist.
Yulia Miloslavskaya
Alexander Gavrilovich met the long-legged, spectacular brunette Yulia Miloslavskaya at a party. According to the actor, she amazed him with her beauty and charm. Soon the couple began to appear at social events, and after a while Yulia moved to live with Abdulov in his Moscow apartment.
At the end of last year at right hand Miloslavskaya sparkled wedding ring, although Abdulov, by hook or by crook, denied marriage to the girl. And soon the reason why Miloslavskaya managed to “wind up” Abdulov became known. 31-year-old Yulia was expecting a child.
Having learned about his friend’s interesting situation, Alexander Gavrilovich immediately stopped going out together. But even when he was at official events, he constantly called Yulia on his mobile phone.
And when their daughter was born, I was in seventh heaven.
Anton Stepanov
Yulia Abdulova is the second official wife of the actor. She met him at the end of his life, but this did not make their feelings less bright and strong. Julia gave Alexander a daughter - his only natural child (his first daughter married to Irina Alferova was adopted by him). The woman was 22 years younger than her husband.
Julia's childhood and youth
As a girl, Yulia bore the surname Meshina. She was born on November 1, 1975 into a strong and wealthy family. Father Nikolai Veniaminovich managed to make a fortune, as he was the manager of a small but cozy and popular Parisian hotel. His brother owned and for a long time successfully led largest plant V hometown Yuli - Nikolaev. However, when the collapse occurred Soviet Union, a redistribution of property has begun in Ukraine. The girl's father was forced to urgently leave the country to avoid arrest, and her uncle ended up in prison. The family found itself in a difficult situation; Yulia’s parents were forced to divorce in order to avoid persecution of his wife and daughter due to claims against Nikolai Veniaminovich from the authorities.
After school, Yulia Meshina went to get an education in Odessa, where she entered the law faculty of the university. She grew up early and also fell in love for the first time early. Already at the age of 18, she found herself married to a classmate. The husband, the son of wealthy parents, barely received a school certificate, acquired own business, had a lot of money and led, as they wrote in old novels, a “distracted lifestyle.” Parties, entertainment, frequent falling in love and infidelity - it’s hard to expect anything else from a person less than 20 years old. However, Julia turned out to be proud and did not tolerate betrayal. After the divorce, she left for Moscow - it was easier to survive the deep disappointment.
Two marriages - unhappy and happy
In Moscow in the 90s and 2000s it was fun, life was in full swing in nightclubs and at social events. Men immediately noticed the beautiful and bright Ukrainian woman. The capital's elite was fascinated by Julia. She fell in love easily, but the feelings were fleeting. Among the men she conquered are producer Igor Markov, businessman and husband of the popular actress Shabtai Kalmanovich, singer Sergei Trofimov. As a result, she married Alexander - but not yet Abdulov, but Ignatenko. He was the son of the director of the ITAR-TASS news agency, a wealthy man, and her career did not work out. In addition, the temperaments of the spouses did not coincide. He was cold and practical, she was ardent, impressionable, hot. They felt uncomfortable together.
One day, another Alexander found himself at the same table with Yulia - a popular actor, a charismatic man, a very kind person, according to the reviews of people who knew him closely. The love between her and Abdulov ignited instantly, despite the fact that the situation around was not conducive - the acquaintance took place during a flight to Kamchatka. However, they hid their love for a long time. At first, the feelings of the deceived husband were spared, and only after Julia’s divorce they began to openly talk about the fact that they were now together. Both did not immediately decide on a new marriage.
The lovers got married in 2006. Soon in 2007, their daughter Zhenechka was born. Abdulov was infinitely happy, but was already deeply ill with lung cancer. Fate gave them very little time. In 2008, Alexander Abdulov died. Few know how Julia and her daughter live now - she avoids publicity. But until now, every year, relatives not only remember the actor on Memorial Day, but also celebrate the birthday of their beloved husband and father...
