Brother of Evdokia Germanova. The abandoned adopted son of Evdokia Germanova is in dire need of money

Kolya Erokhin became a father and promises not to abandon his daughter. Honored Artist of Russia Evdokia Germanova is 58.

She plays in the theater, teaches students acting. She appears in TV series: in the recent “Anna Karenina” on “Russia 1” she played Countess Kartasova.

But TV viewers know Germanova not only for her roles. Many people remember the scandal with her adopted son - the artist abandoned him, declaring him mentally ill.

Adopted out of selfishness

Evdokia Germanova took the child from orphanage 18 years ago. First, she signed up for foster care, and a year later she adopted her. So the one-year-old boy Kolya became Nikolai Nikolaevich Germanov. The leading actress of “Tabakerka,” for whom Tabakov himself vouched, was given a healthy child.

In an interview, Germanova talked about the reasons for adoption: “There was a certain selfishness and even egocentrism in the decision to take a child from an orphanage, because, by and large, I was saving myself. I did it out of hopelessness, out of despair... I wanted to pass on my spiritual experience to someone, to inspire someone to do something..."


NIKOLAY AND HIS CIVIL WIFE VICTORIA BECAME PARENTS THREE MONTHS AGO. PHOTO: CHANNEL ONE

Germanova gave interviews about her new mission and how lucky she was with her baby: he was smart and smiling. But when Kolya went to school, the actress began to complain to her friends that the guy began to show aggression, fight, steal... Evdokia sent the child to mental asylum, where Kolya was diagnosed with chronic schizoaffective disorder. And the actress refused the boy.

“Beat me with a belt and buckle”

The adoption was canceled by the decision of the Lefortovo District Court in 2007, when the child was 9 years old. The details of this story were shared by Maria Arbatova, who knows Germanova and attended a talk show on this topic: “... Of course, we must judge those who gave a child to a lonely, mentally unbalanced, drinking actress. Tabakov got her a beautiful two-room apartment for this child. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire?

He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character. Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night.

All this was played out in the best traditions of “Snuffbox,” and the story was staged with groans and wringing of hands for a bunch of my friends. At the same time, everyone saw a heavily drunk Dunya and a well-communicating child running around the tables in the Central House of Writers restaurant. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in the psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him: his foster mother began to abandon him, and this the process is long. Dunya's brother visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder... After leaving the orphanage, Nikolai removed the diagnosis.

Young father

The guy is now 19 years old. Nikolai went to college to become a cook, works and has already started a family with a girl from an orphanage. Three months ago their daughter was born. About once every six months Kolya Erokhin appears on a talk show.


NATALIA EROKHINA Abandoned her SON KOLYA IN THE MATERNITY HOSPITAL. PHOTO: CHANNEL ONE

Last week on the “Actually” program, Nikolai Erokhin met with his biological mother. Natalya Erokhina abandoned her son in the maternity hospital, since she did not have the means to support three children, and then Kolya was born. The woman does not hide the fact that she has been drinking for many years. A DNA test confirmed that Natalya is Nikolai’s biological mother. The guy says that so far he only feels hatred towards his mother. “Three months ago I became a father for the first time. I can't imagine leaving my child. Me and mine common-law wife Ksyushas are also not rich, but I will do everything so that my girl does not need anything,” says the young man.

Of course, Nikolai is paid to participate in the talk show. But, in addition, Kolya, with the help of journalists, is trying to restore at least some kind of relationship with Evdokia Germanova, but she does not make contact. The guy persistently proves his own worth: he was able to grow up as a full-fledged person, despite his traumatic childhood experience.

Ten years later, Nikolai came to the apartment where he once lived. However, the artist did not recognize her adopted son, slamming the door in his face. But Erokhin did not stop there and called Evdokia to awaken at least some feelings in her. “Do you understand that you’re not doing the right thing? You’ve stirred this up and are poking around in something that I don’t want to have anything to do with,” she replied ex-son Germanova.

ON THIS TOPIC

It became known on the program that Nikolai is in dire need of money and cannot find housing. After abandoning the child, the celebrity kept a two-room apartment, which she received from the state.

Note that three years ago, the actress’s adopted son first shared his memories of how the star adopted him, and seven years later returned him to Orphanage. The artist refused him, accusing the child of schizophrenia. The boy spent a year in a psychiatric hospital.

As it turned out, throughout the entire treatment, only his uncle, the celebrity’s brother Alexei Germanov, visited him. The man took custody of the child in order to take him away on weekends or vacations. Now the young man is studying in college and is going to become a chef-technologist.

Nikolai also reported an important nuance: after his adoption, the actress received housing. The state provided the artist and her child with a two-room apartment. However, after Evdokia returned her son to the orphanage, representatives of the institution refused the property on behalf of the boy.

In turn, the lawyer who was in the studio stated that after leaving the orphanage, Nikolai has the right to his own housing. The defender was also surprised why Erokhin did not receive alimony from his former adoptive parent.

because I met her when she was exactly Nikolai’s age. Alexander Demidov staged my youth play “The Envious” about Yuri Olesha in the studio at the “Theater” magazine, and Dunya was introduced to the role of the girl doll Suok. In my understanding, she remained a girl doll; the years had not changed anything, and when I learned that she was given a child to adopt, I was shocked. This story is loud, all the details are in plain sight, but yesterday’s shooting can sum up the plot. Of course, we must judge those who gave the lonely mentally unbalanced drinking actress (and this is exactly how I saw her at festivals, etc. for many years) a one and a half year old child. Tabakov got her a beautiful two-room apartment for this child. Dunya first dragged Nikolai on tour and sent him to kindergarten, and at the age of 5 she pushed him into school. An orphanage child at 5 years old! It wasn’t easy with the kindergarten either; Nikolai’s classmates who were sitting in the studio said that they regularly saw signs of beatings on him, and there were cases when the baby was afraid to go home. The fact that Dunya brutally beat him is evidenced not only by the scars on his head, but also by a bunch of adults who crossed paths with them at that time. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire? He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character. Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater, and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night. All this was played out in the best traditions of the “snuffbox”, and the story was staged out to a bunch of my friends with groans and wringing of hands. At the same time, everyone saw Dunya, who was heavily drunk, in the Central House of Writers restaurant, and the cutest, well-communicated child running around the tables. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a rapist, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in a psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him - his foster mother began to abandon him, and this is a long process. Dunya’s brother, having learned about the psychiatric hospital, visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age, and Dunya ended her relationship with her brother after that. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder. The orphanage turned out to be excellent, they certainly didn’t beat me or lock me up for a day as punishment, and upon leaving it, Nikolai first of all removed the diagnosis. No “Schizotypal Personality Disorder” was discovered in him, although, as you understand, such a problem would only intensify with age. He went to college to study to become a cook, began to live with a girl from the same orphanage and will soon be a father. Why did you come to the program? Yes then, to show the only woman, who appeared in his life in the role of mother, that everything was in order for him to show his own worth and, perhaps, restore at least some kind of relationship. And, of course, ask why she did this to him? After all, he was only eight years old! But an attempt to meet on camera yielded nothing but the actress’s face with an obvious hangover and her dirty language. And, meanwhile, there are also legal nuances. Germanova received the apartment for the child, and in order not to contact her, the orphanage somehow arranged for him to receive new apartment, which, by the way, hasn’t been given yet, and it’s already September! If it weren't for the girl, Nikolai would have become homeless! In addition, according to the law, when placing a child in an orphanage, a parent is obliged to pay him alimony from all his income, accumulated in his savings book until adulthood. Naturally, the actress didn’t pay him a penny, and the guy has no money at all. And in general, if it weren’t for her brother and ex-husband who take care of Nikolai, it is completely unknown what his life would look like today. Everyone is horrified by the Del family, who made money from orphans, and the founder of this business can be recognized as Evdokia Germanova, who took advantage of an orphan, played enough and sent a healthy but unloved boy to a psychiatric hospital.
You will laugh, the actress has a diploma in psychology and an international certificate of NLP PRACTITIONER and Member of the Board of Trustees charitable foundation"Save Life"

23 September 2017, 08:58

“Everything was going just fine for me and my adopted son Kolya. We felt absolutely happy... And even in nightmare I couldn’t imagine what happened next,” sighs Evdokia Germanova, the leading actress of “Tabakerka”, who has played more than three dozen roles in films and on television and has recently crossed the half-century mark.

I don’t remember exactly what it was like when I arrived at the orphanage, when I was already allowed to take Kolya for a walk.

I think it's the fifth one. Or sixth? No, I don’t remember exactly. Yes, but what difference does it make... In general, 2000, summer. She arrived, as usual, before the appointed time. I'm sitting, waiting. Finally they bring out “mine” - he’s a little guy in sandals, looking around, probably looking for me. When I saw it, I think I was even happy. But he doesn’t run up. Still, as before, he approaches carefully, as if with caution. I take your hand, I feel - again wary. Well, at least he doesn’t mind. I ask: “Shall we go for a walk?” Nods silently. It seems that he even smiled... That summer day was especially good: the sun was gentle, not scorching, a light breeze, the greenery was washed after the rain and this made it somehow especially bright...

Let's go to the nearest public garden. I say something incessantly - I make up all sorts of unimaginable stories about birds, about a dragonfly, about a sad tree, about a cheerful beetle. And I’m surprised at myself where it just came from! And Kolya listens attentively, occasionally asking questions. That means he got involved in communication. They began to play hide and seek, catch up, blind man's buff. Finally, I see that the boy is exhausted, tired, and no longer reacts to anything. He’s really tiny - only a year and a half old. I take him in my arms, and suddenly... He smiled and pressed his whole body against me. He really pressed me hard. And then I fell asleep. In my arms! I look at this flushed cheek on my shoulder, at this sweet saliva and think: “After all, this trusting embrace contains the main thing - the little man unconditionally surrendered himself to me.”

And it was at that moment - I remember it clearly - that I realized: here he is - my child! And I disappeared. My whole insides accepted this boy as my own. As if by magic, all worries about him evaporated in my soul, this nagging doubt disappeared: after all, he was a stranger. And a completely new feeling was born: I am a mother, I have a son...

This is what Evdokia Germanova said in an interview about her adopted child.

EVDOKIA GERMANOVA WITH KOLYA. PHOTO: FIRST CHANNEL.

Colleagues of the actress told the continuation big story adoption - Kolya is studying to become a cook and will soon become a father.

Honored Artist of Russia Evdokia Germanova decided to adopt a child, since she did not have any children of her own. Now the artist is 57 years old, and she took the boy Kolya from an orphanage 17 years ago, and first arranged for patronage. A year later, she submitted documents for adoption, gave the boy her last name and he became Nikolai Nikolaevich Germanov... The guardianship had no doubts and gave the boy to the leading actress of “Tabakerka”.

In an interview, Germanova spoke about the reasons for adoption:

“By the age of forty I was left alone. A terrible depression came over me - I was simply torn apart by the feeling that everything in my life was bad, I was living meaninglessly, there was no future, no one needed me - neither in life nor in my profession. In general, my entire inner territory was engulfed in complete despair and hopelessness...

I admit: of course, there was a certain selfishness and even egocentrism in my decision to take a child from an orphanage, because, by and large, I was saving myself. She did it out of despair, out of despair, but apparently she couldn’t do it any other way. There are many women who give birth to a toy for themselves - just to feel self-sufficient. My goal was different - I wanted to pass on my spiritual experience to someone, give strength, inspire someone to do something.”

EVDOKIA GERMANOVA WITH A SMALL RULE. PHOTO: FIRST CHANNEL.

At first, Germanova believed that she was very lucky to have a guy - inquisitive, smart, talented. But then, according to the actress, the guy began to steal, fight... She admitted him to a psychiatric hospital and Kolya was diagnosed with “chronic schizoaffective disorder.” The actress refused the boy.

But everything is not so simple in this story. The guy grew up, studied, got married, was examined - the doctors declared him absolutely healthy.

KOLYA WITH A TEACHER IN THE CHILDREN'S HOME. PHOTO: SOCIAL NETWORKS

This topic has been raised several times.

For example, Malakhov’s “Let Them Talk” in 2014.

Maria Arbatova:

“I went to the “Let Them Talk” program about Evdokia Germanova’s adopted son Nikolai, because I met her when she was exactly Nikolai’s age. Alexander Demidov staged my youth play “The Envious” about Yuri Olesha in the studio at the “Theater” magazine, and Dunya was introduced to the role of the girl doll Suok. In my understanding, she remained a girl doll; the years had not changed anything, and when I learned that she was given a child to adopt, I was shocked. This story is loud, all the details are in plain sight, but yesterday’s shooting can sum up the plot. Of course, we must judge those who gave the lonely mentally unbalanced drinking actress (and this is exactly how I saw her at festivals, etc. for many years) a one and a half year old child. - expresses his point of view on his page in in social networks Maria Arbatova. - Tabakov got her a wonderful two-room apartment for this child.

Dunya first dragged Nikolai on tour and sent him to kindergarten, and at the age of 5 she pushed him into school. An orphanage child at 5 years old! It wasn’t easy with the kindergarten either; Nikolai’s classmates who were sitting in the studio said that they regularly saw signs of beatings on him, and there were cases when the baby was afraid to go home.

The fact that Dunya brutally beat him is evidenced not only by the scars on his head, but also by a bunch of adults who crossed paths with them at that time. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire? He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character.

Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater, and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night. All this was played out in the best traditions of the “snuffbox”, and the story was staged out to a bunch of my friends with groans and wringing of hands. At the same time, everyone saw Dunya, who was heavily drunk, in the Central House of Writers restaurant, and the cutest, well-communicated child running around the tables. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a rapist, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in a psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him - his foster mother began to abandon him, and this is a long process.

Dunya’s brother, having learned about the psychiatric hospital, visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age, and Dunya ended her relationship with her brother after that. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder. The orphanage turned out to be excellent, they certainly didn’t beat me or lock me up for a day as punishment, and upon leaving it, Nikolai first of all removed the diagnosis. No “schizotypal personality disorder” was discovered in him, although, as you understand, such a problem would only intensify with age. He went to college to study to become a cook, began to live with a girl from the same orphanage and will soon be a father. Why did you come to the program? Yes, in order to show the only woman who appeared in his life as a mother that everything was fine with him, in order to demonstrate his own worth and, perhaps, restore at least some kind of relationship. And, of course, ask why she did this to him? After all, he was only eight years old! But an attempt to meet on camera yielded nothing but the actress’s face with an obvious hangover and her dirty language. And, meanwhile, there are also legal nuances. Germanova received an apartment for the child, and in order not to contact her, the orphanage somehow arranged for him to receive a new apartment, which, by the way, has not yet been given, and it’s already September!

If it weren't for the girl, Nikolai would have become homeless! In addition, according to the law, when placing a child in an orphanage, a parent is obliged to pay him alimony from all his income, accumulated in his savings book until adulthood. Naturally, the actress didn’t pay him a penny, and the guy has no money at all.

And in general, if it were not for her brother and ex-husband, who are taking care of Nikolai, it is completely unknown what his life would look like today. Everyone is horrified by the Del family, who made money from orphans, and the founder of this business can be recognized as Evdokia Germanova, who took advantage of an orphan, played enough and sent a healthy but unloved boy to a psychiatric hospital. You will laugh, the actress has a diploma in psychology and an international certificate of NLP-PRACTITIONER and a member of the board of trustees of the Save Life charity foundation.”

After Malakhov’s broadcast “The Devoted Child of Evdokia Germanova,” the editors of the program received a huge number of calls and letters. Someone sympathized with the actress, but much more more people supported Nikolai. Soon, the teacher at the “Doshkolyonok” orphanage, Lydia Tulaydan, called, too, where Kolya had been previously.

When Germanova brought him to us, she said that he could not eat many foods. We were surprised: what should we feed him then? As a result, he recovered with us, and when Evdokia came to visit him, she was even surprised that he had gained weight. Kolya never called her mom - only “Dusya”. The child was cheerful, cheerful, and very nimble.

She said that the boy was regularly beaten by Germanova. “When Kolya was little, he came to us covered in bruises. We asked him what happened. He didn’t confess for a long time, but then he said the name “Dusya.” We talked with her, but Evdokia assured us that Kolya fell down the stairs,” says the woman.

Many of Maria Arbatova’s subscribers then came out with support for the guy and condemnation of Germanova.

Larisa Guzeeva also spoke out: “Yes, I also believe that Germanova’s act is a crime and there can be no other opinion! And what? What changed in her life after she ruined the boy’s life?”

Nothing changed. And nothing will change.

As I understand it, there will be another program about this situation, but now this topic will be raised by something like “While everyone is at home.”

It’s a little unclear, though, what should change.

Of course, no one will share the apartment anymore. Actors are generally such a category.

This is not a simple hard worker, Ivan Ivanovich, who has to struggle with a mortgage for a hundred years. They lungs people, everyone owes them everything - just like that.

I think it's probably better not to adopt at all than to unnecessary thing return the child under warranty to the store...

// Photo: ITAR-TASS/ Rodionov Publishing House LLC/Natalia Lvova

Kolya Erokhin is 15. He was awarded a diploma for participating in a poetry evening, loves football and is always surrounded by children from the orphanage who idolize him. “Kind, active, responsive,” teachers say about him. Kolya wants to become a chef and someday open his own restaurant, but he no longer dreams of a new mother. “I’ve been here for a long time, but I can’t get used to a new home, people... no,” the teenager says confidently and adds: “I want to stay in an orphanage until I’m 18, and then leave with a calm soul.” Nikolai had two mothers. One is the one who gave birth to him and sent him to an orphanage, and the other is Evdokia Germanova. When one and a half year old Kolya was adopted famous actress, many were touched - a charming baby and a happy mother nearby. “I got a 2-room apartment. And is it possible to give her forty-one? Just a girl! – delighted fans rejoiced.

Interviews on television, photo shoots in magazines. Here is four-year-old Kolya helping his talented and fragile mother put on her evening shoes, and here they are cheek to cheek. Then the boy went to school... “He became aggressive, uncontrollable, was repeatedly caught stealing,” Germanova complained, and with a diagnosis of schizophrenia, which the actress announced publicly, Kolya was sent to a children’s psychiatric hospital. “I lay there for exactly a year. I don’t remember being treated: blood tests, brain checks,” he says and suddenly asks: “Excuse me, but do you see that I’m mentally abnormal?” You can immediately understand that this was made up. I know they found this…hyperactivity in me, but it’s not a disease.”

Nikolai remembered his last meeting with his adoptive mother very well. "It was in winter. She visited me in the hospital and said: “Today I came to see you in last time, you won’t go home with me anymore...” She didn’t explain anything, left the gifts and left. I cried and never saw her again. Maybe she couldn’t withstand the difficulties or didn’t want to, because until I went to school, none of this happened,” Kolya shares with me. - And why does she write such nasty things? Afraid of the truth? Anyone can type in Yandex: “Evdokia Germanova.” I, too, once typed, read, and then closed it and never looked again... Who did she make me out to be? A thief, a psycho, almost a maniac?”

Evdokia Germanova did not come to my studio, explaining her refusal to interview with the interests of the child. The actress’s lawyer tells in detail the story of how Kolya got into a fight with a classmate and the director called Germanova with a request to protect other children from him. When asked whether it is a criminal offense that the boy’s diagnosis was announced publicly, the Themis minister remains silent.

When Kolya was returned to the orphanage, Germanova’s older brother was the first to come to him. Despite his sister’s prohibitions, Alexey constantly visited the child, took him to summer holidays and even filed for guardianship. “I still have fun with him. Only he doesn’t come often anymore, he’s a sick man,” Nikolai says about Alexei, “but I don’t ask him to come, I communicate on the phone. I understand that he has a job and his own concerns.” supported the boy and common law husband actress Sergei German, who did not immediately learn about its existence.

– What if now, eight years later, Evdokia herself calls you?

“I would forgive her, but I didn’t communicate.” And what can I ask: “Why did you give up on me?” Well, this is a childish question...

By the age of 30, Kolya wants to create own family. “Nothing else can make a person happier,” he believes. Nikolai Erokhin also dreams of finding his relatives. “I would no longer like to meet my mother, but my brothers and sisters. Because there are no questions for mom.” He found out: in addition to him, seven more children were born into the Erokhin family.

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