How to change your destiny for the better. Practical magic: Changing destiny What changes destiny
Age is not a hindrance to love
One day an elderly lady (about 80 years old) came to her. Most of all she was interested in the question "How long will I live?" and one more "I have pimples between my legs, what should I do?" Embarrassed, she explains that she recently got married (84 years old to her husband) and they have an intimate relationship. Thanks to my grandmother, I had a rethinking, a definition was formed that for love, for feelings, for intimacy, age is not an obstacle. (Often came young, pretty, unsure of their uniqueness, people who doubt a future marriage, a successful relationship, inventing various unreasonable problems for themselves, hoping that only Fate can change something).Changes are necessary for yourself
A 16-year-old girl, ready for suicide, crying, holds out a photo (in a magazine) and asks for help to become the same as in the photo. The fact is that she liked the guy, but he apparently did not like her, and without thinking twice he poked at the photo and said that this one was in his taste. It was necessary, of course, to calm the girl down, to explain that this was a ridiculous joke, that she would meet her betrothed. This is how people spoil their lives for the sake of someone, they think, by changing their appearance, they will attract the attention of a loved one, this is a gross mistake that carries serious consequences. It's another matter if the changes are necessary for yourself.Mutual interests are important
The girl did not pay attention to the fans, she wanted to meet lofty mutual feelings. At 32, she met a man worthy in her opinion. (But, in my opinion, there were many "but", the man turned out to be much older, three marriages behind him, had children, different nationalities). Now they have two children, but there are many problems, the past constantly makes itself felt, the age difference plays an important role, the relatives are unhappy because of the unsuitable nationality. There are many such cases, nevertheless, it is necessary to more clearly represent the presence of not only love, feelings, but the presence of mutual interests. It is important to take into account your qualities, ask yourself "Such as me, will suit my ideal", maybe something in yourself needs to be changed, developed. It is wrong to wait, to rely solely on Fate, expecting that she herself knows who is best suited. (After all, alien programs can also invade life). In this case, it turns out "I go there, I don't know where, I meet something, I don't know what, and then, as a rule, a child appears, the family breaks up, and the mother does not understand who the child is growing up into?"Fate Correction
Fate, no doubt, exists, but it is possible to "negotiate" with it to correct. A typical case. The girl is a little over 30, but in her personal life there is no one, and she already wants a child, a family. The character is not easy, there are too many complexes, the upbringing of the family had a noticeable imprint not for the better. Considering the fate of the girl, I could not see anything comforting about her question (I did not tell her about it), but I tried to explain what her problems were. The girl came a week later, during this time she met a guy, which she did not even hope for, she really liked him, well, of course she wanted to know what was next. I was surprised that everything had changed so dramatically in such a short time. Asking "What happened?" she replied, “After the conversation, she thought a lot, cried, asked for leave from work, after 3 days she came to her senses and met a guy.” (After we met, she worked out well with him). the concept of adjustment of Fate, but with practice I noticed that really a lot can be changed, but for this it is necessary to change thinking.Therefore, to questions about death, about diseases, one should not expect a clear answer, everything can be turned for the better, the main thing is to do it in a timely manner. It is difficult to see ruined Destinies at an age when much cannot be changed (children give birth on time), time heals, but also takes chances.Change the situation instantly
A similar memorable incident. The woman (64 years old), having lost her husband, decided to sell the dacha, since she was unable to take care of it. The cottage is in a good location, but no buyer has been found in 5 years. She was interested in the sale issue, I could not see the sale of the dacha, I explained the reason - the wife and her husband did everything on it themselves, they planted the garden, built a house, she fell in love with every twig, pebble, because of affection she could not part with her. The lady turned out to be with character, she quickly heard, understood the reason. In the evening she called and said that a buyer had been found, and in the morning she happily told about a successful deal. Many such cases explain how you can instantly change the situation, it is worth thinking differently.Is the truth always relevant?
A woman in her 50s complained about her financial situation, she worked as a salesman, but the trade was going badly. To the question: "Have you tried to be more friendly with customers?" She answered with surprise, rudely, "Is it possible for someone to smile and curry favor in our time?" The woman was offended, embittered at the world, at everyone. She was not going to change her profession, since she always worked as a salesman, but she did not plan to change either, since she was sure of her verdict. After all, it is understandable that with a friendly, friendly-minded salesperson, it is always easier to complete transactions, although the salesperson in reality may have many reasons to behave differently. Many people mistakenly choose the path of "spreading the truth, their own opinion about the environment outside," but is truth always appropriate?Driven horse
Once a lady affirms: "I am like a driven horse, I work four jobs (as a cleaner), I get very tired, but there is not enough money for anything?" The very statement of the question communicates the reason. Whoever feels like a "squirrel in a wheel", "a driven horse", a "cash cow", let him not be surprised by the problems, the dire financial situation, as well as frequent nervous breakdowns and shocks. Seeing yourself as a "fluffy, affectionate, freedom-loving kitty, loved by the owners" is much more effective.Forces turn the gaze
It is good when you see the reason, you explain it, and the Man, having heard it, changes, works on himself. But there are times when it is done, you do not know what to answer, there is no main single specific reason, there are so many of them (a lot of unsolved problems stretching from past incarnations). It is good if an individual is somehow working on himself, but there are people who don’t want to change anything, but they want to live well. Once a woman came (over 50) but looked much older, turned out to be an orphan, did not marry, did not give birth to children, no job, no man, no friends, no good acquaintances, but there was a house for living. I don’t know what to say to her, so as not to disappoint, "hope dies last." Not finding worthy advice, words, I suggest reading the Bible. The woman does not mind, but no, there is no way to do it (to buy a Bible - there is no money, there is no one to ask for). I had to give my own, asking to return the book. To my surprise, this woman comes in about a month, I look at her and am amazed, as if she is glowing from the inside, outwardly noticeably prettier. She returns the book happy, grateful, and says that she found a job, met a man. She replies that the book was always with her, she could not read it, because she did not understand everything. After examining Fate again, much has changed for the better. The Higher Forces always turn their gaze to people who sincerely turn to them, not asking, not demanding something specific, but simply hoping for the best. They know the needs of a Man.Undesirable situations
Often people, being in old age, ask the question about death, they are interested in how it will overtake them. With experience, I noticed what an individual thinks about it, what fears he experiences and programs his departure. One grandmother asks: "Here is my daughter far away, I would meet death on my feet, otherwise who will take care of me lying down?" Another person will ask, it would seem, the same question, but the emphasis will be placed not on the legs, but on the bed: "If I am lying down, suddenly there will be no one around?" Why program yourself unwanted situations.Forgive for the negative sent
Once an alarmed woman came, who had lost a loved one (accident), from whom she gave birth to a son (19) years old, the national issue did not allow them to live in marriage, the mother of the beloved resisted. A grief-stricken mother often calls this woman and curses her son, wishes that she also lost him (her own unrecognized grandson). The son of the mother calmed, said: "do not take it to heart", grandmother, with her wishes "sent far away." The question is not uncommon, unpleasant, but in this case the mother misbehaved. Curses of course work, they don't ask whether you want it or not. The son did not accept the verbal curses at his address, he understood in his hearts that the grandmother was delusional, her grief was destroying her. But the mother accepted her curse, absorbed the negative program, "putting" it on her son. In such difficult situations, it is important to try not to take to heart the spoken negative quality of the word, they do not always have power, because of grief, the person often does not know what he is doing. It would be good at first to weigh everything properly, to think about why, to be imbued with the grief of the injured person, to sympathize, to understand him, to think and what would be my reaction in the place of this person. It is not worth taking a lot of time for reflection, so as not to "blow the elephant out of a fly," then let go of the situation, forgive the person for the negative sent, wholeheartedly wish him all the best. Thus, if not completely, then at least the sent negative is partially neutralized. It happens that an individual reconsiders his attitude and becomes a friend.Think the best
There are often cases when a teenager comes home at the wrong time, does not make itself felt. Anxious parents start to worry about calling hospitals, morgues, the police, this happens regularly. Understandably vigilance can save in a timely manner. But there is something else, but the teenager may have gone on a spree at a party, took offense at his parents and decided to "punish" them. Concerned parents, thinking about the worst, program problems, even if Destiny does not have this program, then the parents "write" it. If the worst is destined to happen to an individual, even in this situation, parents must control themselves, program, think about the best, positive outcome, this program will send, "weave" protection. It's easier to gently talk to your teenager about your concerns and ask them to report delays. But if the parents are against, they scold the child, then it is unlikely that this will affect him, he will still do it his own way, and deciding to call, he will know that, since he will not be supported, they will not understand why to spoil everyone's nerves at the moment.Footrests
A typical situation is when loved ones, relatives, put trips. A person does not understand why, because in the past they shared everything, supported each other. You need to be able to analyze not only other people's actions, but also your own. Time changes circumstances, there is rivalry, hidden grievances. You must always understand the problems of a loved one. Why with a friend who has not had a man for a long time to share stories about his romantic relationship with her husband, it is not surprising that one day this husband will be close to his friend. You should not give expensive gifts, showing your financially successful position to a person who has always considered himself better, more successful, but today he has nothing "glued". Why then be surprised that the emerging problems, intrigues he created. When buying lottery tickets together (successful marriage, career growth, planned achievements) why expect a loser loved one to be sincerely happy for the winner. After all, he understands that the chances were equal, but he does not understand why they did not choose him, and if this happens regularly, then the loser will either leave, or will accumulate resentment, disappointment. The rarest case when a close friend from the heart, impartially rejoice at the victory of a comrade. Even between father and son, mother and daughter, there are often disagreements, rivalries, although they understand that a successful individual will share values.Endurance conquers a lot
People make up problems for themselves. It seems to them that it is their problem that is important, if it were not for it, everything would be different, they are looking for support, hints, help, sympathy. Sometimes you wonder how the traveler really handles problems, not paying any attention to them, while others direct all efforts to solving relatively non-existent, fictitious problems. Once a woman came with a single question, she could not get a disability for a child (1 year old). It turned out that the woman has an eldest son of 15 years old, but the invalid could not get up on her feet, her husband left, he did not provide material assistance. I was surprised that my mother did not lose heart, she was happy, contented, energetic, well-groomed. I could not restrain myself and asked what was helping her to hold on like this, not at all embarrassed, said: "Look at my son" in the stroller lay a pretty, smart one-year-old baby, evident by the energy, but the size of the legs is the same as at birth. She continues, looking at her son tenderly with love, "I have for whom, for what to live, to fight." After that we accidentally ran into the administration, I ran for 4 hours, made documents, and this woman stood in line, held her son in her arms, apparently they did not give up her place, everyone is angry, disgusting, dejected, starved, and she shines, smiles, does not lose heart ... Endurance, positive mood wins a lot,It seems that there are many reasons for such a desire. We are all unhappy with our lives because we are sick of comparison. Comparing ourselves to others. Compare with the ideal. Psychologists will stop at this and will advise you to accept yourself and get rid of evaluative dependence.
This is all complete bullshit. Estimated addiction grabs and keeps us at the level of consciousness. Cold, longing and pain, forcing to look for ways to change fate, sit deeper. At the very core of our being.
There are only two reasons for wanting to change your life. We want to change when we are hurt or cramped. Everything. The rest is just a consequence of these reasons.
The pain can be physical - illness, injury, anomalies in the central nervous system.
Maybe sincere - our "I" suffers from real or imaginary humiliation. Poverty, failure, obscurity, own weakness.
The second reason is tightness. We are different. Someone is wide and / or deep inside, and someone is narrow and / or shallow. Psychologists who advise you to come to terms with yourself, bearing in mind your position in life, are either stupid or hypocritical. They advise people what they themselves cannot do. They teach what is a deliberate lie. If you have 2 centimeters of a layer, of course, it will be easy to put up with, but if 1222?
If you were born to rule, paint and act in films, heal people and be a kick-ass lover. If you have it all? Come to terms with the fate of office plankton? A seller in the market? A patrol sergeant? A single mother living on alms and benefits? Will not work! You will be strangled by tightness all your life. The feeling of emptiness and cold ceiling against which you rest.
I will repeat. The desire to change your destiny comes from pain or tightness.
- Instructions for changing your destiny.
1) Psychologists and esotericists argue that the power of thought and word is enormous. That everything that happens in life is a consequence of what a person did, said and thought. To change fate, to decorate everything around, you need to start with what is inside a person. Then change this, and after a while the fate will improve, external circumstances will become different.
2) The foundations of life philosophy are laid in childhood. Mom and Dad, close relatives, friends form the worldview. And everything that was then written down steadily acts in the world of a person throughout his life. For example, my mother always thought that it was impossible to become rich, no amount of effort would help to get to the top. And if she believed in it, sometimes she spoke out loud in front of the child, he absorbed it, as a rule. And now any of his attempts to make good money are not being carried out. There can be many such installations, each one has its own. But you need to see them.
3) To find out what principles operate in life, divide your destiny into sectors: personal life, work, self-realization, relationships with parents, hobbies, rest, etc. There can be many points. And for each, write all the thoughts that are in your head. Do not evaluate them, do not divide them into good or bad, just write them down in a column. You will see that you borrowed some of the principles from your mother, some from your friends, and some from your own experience. This list is a set of rules that are implemented in your destiny.
4) Choose the ones that restrict you. And change to the opposite. For example, instead of "getting rich is impossible" write "getting rich is easy." And repeat the new settings constantly. This exercise is called creating affirmations. If you say new phrases to yourself regularly, repeat in any convenient place, believe in them, then they will replace old programs and change your destiny.
5) You can correct your destiny by taking some decisive steps in life, for example, moving will be such a decision. Just select another city on the map and go live there. You can act less drastically and change jobs. Do not move to another similar place, namely change your specialty. You will have to master many skills, learn interesting things, as well as settle down in a new field.
6) You can change your destiny by expanding your worldview. Today there are many books that talk about religions, philosophical teachings, this is an opportunity to see the world from a different angle, to know it from a different side. Such works provide an opportunity to develop spiritually, and this definitely changes one's destiny. As soon as you start broadening your horizons, unexpected opportunities appear that can make your life better. 
- Real ways to change your life path.
1) Change your life goals once and for all!
The most affordable way to change your life path is to revise meaningful goals. Making old dreams come true, leaving fear aside, deciding to take action - you should not postpone such a strategy until later. Change is exactly what leads us to the new. For personal growth, you need to devote time to learning.
2) Find the main meaning of life.
After working out the external goals (achievement, contribution to society), the development of your inner world comes. It is important to ask the question: “What is the purpose of my life? What contribution can I make to the outside world? " Strong responses motivate deep change. Internal energy is capable of triggering irreversible reactions in life. If there is a business that will bring genuine joy regardless of the circumstances, then the choice is obvious.
3) Turn to the Higher Forces.
Everyone has karma to work hard on. By investing meaning in deep reflection, heartfelt prayer, a person achieves meaningful goals. A quick leap forward happens when a person is ready to accept his mistakes and atone for guilt. How to change your destiny? Why not ask her to open up new opportunities, achieve an understanding of her tasks, find a worthy mentor. Making requests like these can attract positive changes that will broaden your horizons. How to do it? Write a letter to the Higher Powers, which will indicate the reasons for such a request. Next, read, putting emotional experiences into each word. Oddly enough, but this method really helps to change the course of life.
4) Be grateful.
Grateful people are more likely to give than they demand in their favor. Saying "thank you" for the smallest thing is very helpful. “Give it back once, and it will come back to you twice,” it's hard to argue with the saying. There are so many examples available! I made a gift for no reason just with the best wishes - they made you an exception in life. Thank God for your relatives - you will see them healthy and happy. There is always a response. Positive energy is waiting for its moment when it should come back to the sender. Gratitude rituals are a powerful cure for negativity and resentment. You can't skimp on good words when it's time to say it. How to find out and change your destiny? Write a letter of gratitude to the Higher Forces for all the achievements, trials, happiness and sorrow. Words need to be spoken from the heart. This technique really works, it frees a person from the old framework. Tomorrow life can change beyond recognition!
5) Help from a spiritual healer.
It is important to find a trusted mentor who can clearly see destiny. It cannot be denied that there are charlatans for whom money is above all else! But we cannot exclude the existence of people who can read the past, present and future. Seeing the reasons is the main task of the healer. Fate is programmed to deal with difficult life situations. You can obediently follow the plan or break through the door to a brighter future.
6) Purposefully develop on a new path.
Becoming yourself is the main secret to growth. Self-realization requires constant development. To do this, you need to positively, adequately assess the environment, ceasing to shift responsibility to others. It is possible to eliminate shortcomings, problems, weaknesses with the help of effective development. An increase in the inner strength of a person occurs with the accumulation of knowledge. Mistakes on the way to the set goals cannot be ruled out, because they help to gain valuable experience. The more a person uses the potential, the faster the result will come to him. How to change your destiny? It is enough to trust the inner sensation. To abandon addictions, suppress weaknesses, temper willpower - all this, as a wave wash away, the absence of change. 
You, of course, will not immediately put the advice into practice, but at least you will begin the path to fundamental changes.
The material was prepared by Dilyara specially for the site
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Can destiny be changed? People ask such a question very often, especially when the current state of affairs does not suit them at all. And really, isn't it interesting to know if everything in our life is predetermined from the beginning or we ourselves create our own reality? I propose to find out in the next article.
Destiny is what is happening to us right now, this is the life that we received under the influence of our past actions and aspirations. Here one cannot but remember about Karma - the law of cause and effect.
Every action you take has consequences, for which you receive either a reward or a punishment.
The same is with fate: whether it will be good, successful, happy or, on the contrary, painful, terrible, is directly influenced by everything you have done earlier (meaning - in your previous incarnations).
It is not difficult to determine what your destiny is: for this you just need to take a closer look at your surroundings and everything that happens to us. All this is our destiny, just like our physical shell, height, weight, hair color, eyes and other parameters. Surely, you can easily establish whether you have received good or bad fate in your present life.
And then, as with the diagnosis, everything is clear, then about how to change fate, and whether it is real in principle, many questions arise. There are a huge number of different opinions on this topic.
For example, the Vedas claim that people have the ability to change from 20 to 30% of events in their destiny. According to other versions, it is believed that a person is almost unable to change the material plan of his life. But he still has complete freedom of action in the spiritual plane.
True, in contrast to this version, one can recall one more opinion: by changing one's spiritual state, it is possible to achieve improvement in many material aspects of life. The main thing is that this does not turn into the only meaningful goal for you.
In general, you can talk for a long time on the topic raised, but I want to note that you can change your destiny! There are many confirmations of this: the stories of individuals who from birth had very unfavorable indicators, but were able to achieve success in life through personal efforts. How can this be done? Let's figure it out.
Creator of your destiny! Understand that you yourself create your reality with your own thoughts, words and actions. And if your life does not satisfy you - only you can change it for the better by taking appropriate action.
Therefore, stop transferring responsibility for what is happening to you onto someone else: God, the government, your relatives, and take it upon yourself 100%! And decide for yourself whether you want to live in a world of pain and suffering or in a world of joy and happiness?
To change your destiny for the better, before you introduce something new into it, you will need to deal with the old rubble. They mean the accumulation of unresolved grievances, conflict situations, remorse for mistakes made in the distant past.
All of this greatly affects the present. Therefore, it is important to reconsider your life lived and put things in order in it. From the bottom of my heart, forgive everyone who once caused you pain, analyze and forget old quarrels, sincerely ask for forgiveness from those whom you have offended (if these people are no longer in our world, then at least turn to them in your thoughts ).
Let go of the guilt and shame that often gnaws at you. Pay back all your old debts. And also do not forget about taking care of your health: giving up bad habits will bring no less effect than giving up negative internal attitudes. Therefore, forget about excess alcohol, tobacco and other stimulants.
To understand how to change your destiny for the better, you need to understand your goals. Conduct a thorough analysis of them in order to understand whether they are really yours, come from the depths of the Soul or were imposed from the outside (by parents, society, friends or someone else)? Here you can use a cunning psychological technique - quite simple, but very effective.
You should write out all of your goals on a piece of paper. Pay attention to their sound - which of the two options do you choose: "I want to have ..." or "I want to be in the process ..."?
In the first case, most likely, the goal is false, not yours in reality. And you want to have this car, phone, house, clothes, to go abroad, because everyone else is doing that.
In the second case, when a person wants to be in a specific state for a long time, we can talk about the true goal. You really dream of a trip to Paris, you want to have a job with a convenient schedule for yourself, you want to create a happy and harmonious relationship, and so on.
It is extremely important that a person follows his own goals, and does not blindly copy the behavior of others. Only then will he be able to get on the right track of his destiny and he will be able to start creating his own happiness.
A positive vision of the world and attitude to everything that happens is one of the keys to success. It is often possible to observe that people are so overwhelmed by negative thoughts and feelings that they simply stop seeing anything good! For them, their whole life becomes a continuous darkness ...
And on the mental plane, like is drawn to like. And the more you drown in the swamp of negativity, the more and more troubles the Universe will begin to send into your life.
This means that we urgently need to learn to look at things differently, from a different angle. Start to fight your tendencies towards pessimism, learn to notice more positive things, even if they are very small. Do not forget that the psycho-emotional state in which you are is a powerful psychological factor in the creation of your destiny. After all, all our emotions are also energy impulses that form karma!
As a rule, people ask themselves the question: "How to change their destiny for the better?" when the life they live does not satisfy them. What does such a state testify to? That you have many suppressed desires and needs.
Basically, all human goals in life have one meaning - we want to achieve a state of happiness. But in order to become happy, you usually need to make certain efforts, change yourself, work on self-improvement, and not passively hope for miracles.
The passive life position is analogous to the role of the victim in psychology. Such a person is lazy, constantly indulges his weaknesses, does not try to overcome himself. Which also indicates insufficiently developed willpower. He may try to pass the responsibility for all his “misfortunes” onto those around him - parents, children, poor living conditions, whatever, so long as he doesn't have to do anything.
If you recognize yourself, then you need to pull yourself together and start changing the situation. Set your most significant goals and desires and begin to engage in their satisfaction. And without excuses and explanations why you cannot do it!
Having engaged in self-knowledge and study of the world, you will find a lot of information on changing your destiny. For example, turning to philosophy, you will learn the essence of things and phenomena occurring around you, discover many interrelationships, learn about the subtle structure of the Universe and people.
There is also a lot of other mystical knowledge that will be helpful. Shown to engage in the study of astrology, numerology, palmistry - they will help to reveal the features of your personality, which you might not even suspect. Plus, thanks to them, it will be easier to reveal your true purpose, identify karmic tasks and understand why you came to this world.
The knowledge of changing one's destiny through the correction of states can be found in many spiritual practices. These are meditative practices, and relaxation, and mantras, and prayers. All this will help to harmonize the energy centers of a person by tuning the consciousness to more subtle vibrations.
Therefore, look for the most acceptable method for yourself and start doing it regularly. Very soon you will find significant changes in your usual state, as well as in your worldview and life position. It is likely that you will discover a completely new world, look at everything differently, with different eyes.
In conclusion
Finally, I would like to note that the recommendations given in the article are far from all that you can do. However, in order to get a positive result, you need 3 most important components:
- faith, without a shadow of doubt;
- strong intentions;
- active actions.
Of course, no one says that changing your destiny is easy. Yes, it is very, very difficult. Most likely, not everything will work out right away, initially you may be overwhelmed by strong emotions. But if you really want to change your life, to leave the usual vicious circle, you will have enough strength for this.
The main thing is not to give up halfway and not listen to "good" advice from the outside. Many of your loved ones can be confusing. Of course, they do this not out of malice, but simply because it seems to them that they know better than you how you live. Do not listen to such advisers, be firm and unshakable in your intentions, and then life will surely reward you for your perseverance!
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Are all people capable of changing destiny? How to change the fate of an ordinary person? What and who is stopping us from doing this? What are the algorithms for changing fate? The article answers these questions.
Why do people want to change their destiny?
It seems that there are many reasons for such a desire. We are all unhappy with our lives because we are sick of comparison. Comparing ourselves to others. Compare with the ideal. Psychologists will stop at this and will advise you to accept yourself and get rid of evaluative dependence. Finita la comedy.
This is all complete bullshit. Estimated addiction grabs and keeps us at the level of consciousness. Cold, longing and pain, forcing to look for ways to change fate, sit deeper. At the very core of our being.
There are only two reasons for wanting to change your life. We want to change when we are hurt or cramped. Everything. The rest is just a consequence of these reasons.
The pain can be physical - illness, injury, anomalies in the central nervous system.
Maybe sincere - our "I" suffers from real or imaginary humiliation. Poverty, failure, obscurity, own weakness.
The second reason is tightness. We are different. Someone is wide and / or deep inside, and someone is narrow and / or shallow. Psychologists who advise you to come to terms with yourself, bearing in mind your position in life, are either stupid or hypocritical. They advise people what they themselves cannot do. They teach what is a deliberate lie. If you have 2 centimeters of a layer, of course, it will be easy to put up with, but if 1222?
If you were born to rule, paint and act in films, heal people and be a kick-ass lover. If you have it all? Come to terms with the fate of office plankton? A seller in the market? A patrol sergeant? A single mother living on alms and benefits? Will not work! You will be strangled by tightness all your life. The feeling of emptiness and cold ceiling against which you rest.
I will repeat. The desire to change your destiny comes from pain or tightness.
Is it possible to change fate and who is capable of it?
So I want to say that everyone can do it, but it will not be true. After reviewing the studies of sociologists from different countries, I reconsidered my views. Not everyone can change. It is a fact. A terrible fact from which there is no escape.
True, my readers, by virtue of their search, do not belong to an absolutely inert group. So there is a chance that my work is not in vain.
The society consists of people of different temperaments, character and mentality. However, we all obey social laws, which are as immutable as physical laws.
Whether we like it or not, we are all within our groups. I'm not talking about social strata, although this also matters. Talk about groups, whose framework is determined by our biochemistry and mental organization. One of them is passionarity, the other is the ability to adapt, and the third is the degree of psychosomatic control. We will talk about them.
I will not give strict scientific definitions and express myself in the clericalism of sociologists. In a lively and accessible form, I will give an example of separation according to the principle of creativity and the focus of intelligence. I will tell you about the laws of stupidity and explain how to change your destiny no matter what.
Inertia of thinking and change of fate
All of us, some earlier and some later, become inert. For some, inertia turns on at 20 years old, for others closer to 30 years. Biology and fate scenarios will determine this.
We are becoming like a steam locomotive. Every year the speed of the locomotive is higher, the wagons of experience and prejudices are greater. Only exceptional circumstances, such as a situation of clinical death, are able to switch the arrows. Change the rails on which the locomotive rolls. You can do it yourself, but then you have to stop.
Imagine what it would be like to stop a train, loaded to the eyeballs, rushing at full speed? That's just it - a lot of energy is required. And you can't stop right away. Our steam locomotive breaks down, the cars will fly off the rails. This happens when a person is forcibly pulled out of the environment for a long time. Or he became a fiery cultist. Do you understand what I mean?
Only coercion makes nature move, including human. Nothing changes unnecessarily, least of all the human personality. She is monstrously conservative, if not inert. Only the most acute need is able to scare her away. Likewise, the development of a personality obeys not a desire, not an order, and not an intention, but only necessity: a person needs motivating coercion from destinies emanating from within or coming from without.
It turns out that only 4 categories of people can change their lives for the better without horrific losses. There are few people in the third category, and there are practically none of the fourth.
B. The second category is those with few carriages. They managed to throw out all the trash of their life by themselves or with someone's help. For example, after completing the training "Psychodoping" or its analogues. Their composition is light. Accordingly, the energy is required a little.
C. Third - those who have a huge reserve of energy and strength. These are exceptional people. Real charismatics, capable of great things. Or people who accumulate this energy for a long time and persistently. For example, devotees of self-development systems.
You ask: "What does the strength in the third group have to do with it?" The fact is that the line-up will have to be stopped at full speed. Otherwise, it will last for many years.
What has been said above refers to fundamental changes. Overhaul of life, otherwise - a complete change of fate. Cosmetic changes that do not affect the basics are easy. Here the whole arsenal of practical psychology will help. Such systems as Simoron, Transurfing, LOLA, Freeskiting, FIG are even more effective. The latter, however, do not work without faith. My analogue, Achievable Fairy Tales, is free from this drawback, but requires serious study.
I repeat, all of these systems easily deal with cosmetic life changes. They are not capable of turning a beggar into a wealthy person or raising a disabled person to his feet.
Under what circumstances does fate change?
Circumstances can be anything, but, in fact, there are three options.
First, a person is experiencing clinical death. In his brain, irreversible changes are taking place - a deep restructuring of neural connections. This is physiology. If we take a spiritual experience - this is the experience of death / rebirth with a possible going beyond the sphere of the material world. Transphysical survivors never return to their old lives.
Second, a person finds himself in conditions that are unbearable for himself. All his powers and abilities are mobilized for survival. If the time spent in borderline conditions is long, the picture of the world changes irreversibly. Accordingly, there is a change of fate.
The third option is that a person, at the cost of incredible efforts, melts his life or applies special techniques based on knowledge that is inaccessible to the general mass of knowledge.
How to find out and change fate?
Can astrologers, palmists, oracles be trusted?
It is impossible to find out fate using the combinatorics of any mantic system (astrology, tarot, runes). Of course, an impressionable person will be able to fit events into vague, generalized answers. But this is self-deception.
If a person does not believe in these systems, not a single horoscope and not a single fortune-teller will ever predict his fate with an accuracy exceeding 50%. This is exactly as much as the reading of social and latent bodily signals can give.
Without communicating with the client, on a piece of paper, the accuracy drops to 15-25%. There will remain common moments that, according to the theory of probability, all people experience. Unique events will rush by.
Therefore, astrologers and fortune-tellers try to communicate. They are good psychologists and, hammering their heads in the gullible, learn about their past and hang self-fulfilling prophecies.
From his youth, the author communicated with astrologers and predictors of exceptional talents. Some are known in narrow (and some in wide) circles not only in our country. These are people who are considered phenomena. So, no one could predict my fate even in general terms! They later attributed this to a person, but in those days no internal changes took place.
Absolutely everyone was mistaken in the most crucial moments. They just didn't see them. And these are phenomena! And many believe newspaper forecasts.
How to find out your destiny?
It is possible to find out and change fate only as a result of an analysis of the past and an adequate assessment of the present. Moreover, the analysis of the past should not be limited to compiling a list of different situations and sighing for mistakes and missed opportunities.
We must understand that it is often not the events themselves that are important, but our attitude towards them. Not the elections themselves, but the reasons that prompted them. Changing destiny requires high awareness. The reasons for most of the actions of an ordinary person are prosaic. Momentary desires and whims, laziness and conceit rule us completely.
I will repeat. Often, it is not the events themselves that are important, but our attitude towards them, not the elections themselves, but the reasons that prompted them.
Sometimes choices that we think are important, actions that leave marks in our memory, do not really mean anything. We inflate the elephant out of a fly and drag it along for the rest of our lives.
Or, conversely, we pass, without looking back, past the only choice that can turn our lives around and make us a successful and happy person.
Why is this happening? Because the mind keeps in focus only the momentary, plus fantasies about the present and the future, memories of the past. The rest is lost. Here are some examples.
You walk down the street, immersed in your own gloomy thoughts of loneliness. You pass the bus stop and do not notice the girl who is following you with an interested look. But it is with this girl that you could be happy.
The fifth person in a week invites you to go somewhere. You brush this ridiculous proposal aside. If I had gone, I would have met there a classmate who had gotten rich, in excellent spirits, sorting out candidates for possible partners in his head.
Fortunately, I have an excellent tool to comprehensively analyze my past and calculate auspicious moments. Those very days and those very places. Look at the posts "Map of life - periods", "Map of life - cycles", "Map of life - algorithms of fate."
How to change your destiny right now?
Let's talk about what to do as soon as you read the article. Here and now, without postponing anything for later. To understand the essence of some of the techniques, you will have to touch on sociology, psychology and neurophysiology a little.
Who is stopping us from changing our lives?
Stupidity is the first and most important factor. Our own and the stupidity of others. As proof - the results of studies that look like the notorious Parkinson's laws. True, unlike the latter, it does not smell like jokes.
Before getting acquainted with the laws of stupidity, let's define in terms.
A fool or a fool is a person who harms himself and others without any benefit to himself.
You have to understand that stupidity, done with intent, without intent, with the best intentions, consciously and unconsciously, always harms others. In fact, the reasons for the actions taken do not matter.
The laws of stupidity
The real number of stupid people in your environment is higher than you think.
Consequences of the law
No matter how reasonable a plan is, if more than 2 people are involved in its implementation, the number of mistakes increases with each new participant.
All other things being equal, 99% of failed projects collapsed due to the stupidity of partners and performers.
Stupidity does not depend on personality.
Explanation
Almost all of us are trapped in personality assessment. A kind and honest person seems to us better than a callous egoist. All this is true, but stupidity does not depend on spiritual qualities. Good or evil, honest or fraudulent fool - sometimes it does not matter. Both the one and the other will ruin the assigned task in the same way. Both the one and the other will harm you with their unpredictability.
Consequence of the law
In choosing partners and performers, rely primarily on intelligence and experience.
The average number of stupid people in a team of more than 6 people is a constant value.
Explanation
Neither the size of the collective, nor the level of training of its members, nor race, nor nation, nor gender, nor cultural level matter. The ratio of the number of fools to others is a constant.
Moreover, if someone tries to break this law by gathering a team of outstanding people, some of them start acting stupidly.
Therefore.
If you test the actions of loaders, handymen, employees or professors, the percentage of fools will be the same.
You will never protect yourself from the fool in the team. You shouldn't try to do this. Efforts should be directed towards proper delegation of responsibility.
The smart one always underestimates the danger of stupidity.
Explanation
An intelligent person is rational. He calculates his actions and the actions of those around him. Because of this, a false knowledge of the nature of people arises. False knowledge is worse than complete ignorance. Why? Because the latter causes fear, and the former relaxes.
The smart one is in captivity of the stereotype of rationality, otherwise he rationalizes the actions of others. The fool does not obey logic, he is driven by instincts, whims and suggestions from the outside. The fool is dangerous because of its unpredictability. Dangerous primarily for yourself. No wonder they say that fools are beaten in the altar too.
Therefore.
I decided to do something, do not take a fool as a companion and do not even tell him about it.
We are all subject to stupidity to a greater or lesser extent. I want to give you a gorgeous gift - the formula for stupidity. I think you will find a use for it.
Formula of stupidity
Stupidity = emotions + time limit + false knowledge (patterns of behavior and stereotypes of thinking)
By decreasing the importance of any factor, you will reduce the amount of stupidity.
The most stupid actions grow out of the heat of emotions with a minimum of time to make a decision. Emotional decisions are 99% wrong. With regard to patterns of behavior and thinking, the most telling example is the experience with the maze.
NLP founders Richard Bandler and John Grinder described their experiences in figuring out the difference in behavior between rats and humans. The rats placed in the maze had to look for cheese. They found him and memorized the moves. The cheese was shifted, and everything started all over again. People were looking for 50 dollar bills.
The rats entered the place from where the cheese was removed 2-3 times, and continued a new search. People went to places where banknotes used to be lying around all the time. Moreover, most of them stopped searching and went only there.
People are strange creatures. On every second website with the topic of self-development, they write that we, doing the same actions, are trying to get different results. People come in, read, agree and continue to step on the old rake. Isn't it crazy? Both in the laboratory labyrinth and in life, we quickly form patterns from which we are then unable to jump out. Rats in this respect behave smarter and more practical than us.
Conclusion. To the question of how to change destiny, right now there is only one answer - to leave the maze of your patterns immediately. There are excellent tools - trainings "Psychodoping" and "Erase Fear". The first one will break the socio-psychological patterns, the second one will remove your fears.
On this I will round off and wish you good luck!
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The willingness to change the course of one's own life from “I feel bad / it became impossible” to “so wonderful / now I can” makes you take the situation into your own hands. "Our path is predetermined and it is impossible to turn back" - such an expression can only drive everyone into moral decline. It is better to be guided by the rule: "Life, like plasticine, can take various forms." How to change your destiny guaranteed? Constantly study your inner world and be ready for drastic changes!
2. Find the main meaning of life.
After working out the external goals (achievement, contribution to society), the development of your inner world comes. It is important to ask the question: “Which one? What contribution can I make to the outside world? " Strong responses motivate deep change. Internal energy is capable of triggering irreversible reactions in life. If there is a business that will bring genuine joy regardless of the circumstances, then the choice is obvious.
3. Turn to the Higher Forces.
Everyone has karma to work hard on. By investing meaning in deep reflection, heartfelt prayer, a person achieves meaningful goals. A quick leap forward happens when a person is ready to accept his mistakes and atone for guilt. How to change your destiny? Why not ask her to open up new opportunities, to achieve an understanding of her tasks, to find a worthy one. Such requests can attract positive changes that will expand life horizons.
How to do it? Write a letter to the Higher Powers, which will indicate the reasons for such a request. Next, read, putting emotional experiences into each word. Oddly enough, but this method really helps to change the course of life.
4. Be grateful.
Grateful people are more likely to give than they demand in their favor. Saying "thank you" for the smallest thing is very helpful. “Give it back once, and it will come back to you twice,” it's hard to argue with the saying. There are so many examples available! I made a gift for no reason just with the best wishes - they made you an exception in life. Thank God for your relatives - you will see them healthy and happy. There is always a response. Positive energy is waiting for its moment when it should come back to the sender.
5. Help of a spiritual healer.
It is important to find a trusted mentor who can clearly see destiny. It cannot be denied that there are charlatans for whom money is above all else! But we cannot exclude the existence of people who can read the past, present and future. Seeing the reasons is the main task of the healer. Fate is programmed to deal with difficult life situations. You can obediently follow the plan or break through the door to a brighter future.
6. Purposefully develop on a new path.
Becoming yourself is the main secret to growth. requires constant development. To do this, you need to positively, adequately assess the environment, ceasing to shift it onto others. It is possible to eliminate shortcomings, problems, weaknesses with the help of effective development. An increase in a person occurs with the accumulation of knowledge. Sign up for a personal growth course? Fine! Read literature with deep meaning? Wonderful! Mistakes on the way to the set goals cannot be ruled out, because they help to gain valuable experience. The more a person uses, the faster the result will come to him.
How to change your destiny? It is enough to trust the inner sensation. To abandon addictions, suppress weaknesses, temper - all this, as a wave wash away, the absence of change. You, of course, will not immediately put the advice into practice, but at least you will begin the path to fundamental changes. If the article was even a little useful to you, share it with someone who is valuable to you. Know, changes are just around the corner!
